Will, USA (late 30s)
I first found Natalia’s services while pursuing a woman that I was interested in. However, I was very anxious and found myself sensitive and temperamental with micro-changes in our relationship. I knew it wasn’t working, and it was clear that the woman needed some space and was withdrawing.
And so, I began searching for some type of consultant that specialized in bringing people together. Along the way, I ran into a number of other consultants that were a bit off-putting and impersonal.
But when landed on Natalia’s website, her videos left me very impressed. I also saw that she had some media “credits” (had spoken at different news stations, been interviewed by media outlets, etc.), and I just had a sense that we would click well.
At first, I was a little worried about sharing this much information with another individual (and was worried they would be judgmental or that things would be weird), but I quickly realized my work with her would be none of those things.
When I first began working with Natalia, I had a LOT of questions about my relationship – what am I doing wrong? What can I do to improve my results in this situation? Am I doing everything that I can to ultimately be with this woman that I’m pursuing?
Since then, Natalia has been there every step of the way to help facilitate the relationship’s growth and guide me in so many ways. She’s helped me learn that I have a lot of anxious-type behaviors that come out when communicating. And on probably 30 or 40 different occasions, she’s been able to push me in a more effective direction than how I would have communicated otherwise.
Simply put, Natalia taught me that what I really needed was to improve the stability in my mind so I could in turn become more stable in my pursuit of this woman.
And with Natalia’s help, I’ve gotten so much farther in my relationship with this woman than I ever could have gotten on my own. In fact, things are so good with the relationship now that I’m only speaking to Natalia once a month...compared to the once or twice per week I was doing before!
Truly, Natalia has made something that would have been impossible on my own possible. She’s also helped me learn so much about myself, how I communicate, and how others perceive the way I communicate. She’s really helped me improve my emotional intelligence overall.
Not to mention, she’s very easy to schedule with and has great availability. She also responds whenever I need instant feedback about a relationship issue. As in, I’ve been able to text her on a Sunday and get a response back in 15 minutes.
I would absolutely recommend her to anyone else struggling with their relationships. She’s helped me in so many ways and has helped me achieve things with my own relationship that I never would have been able to achieve by myself.
Joshua, Toronto, Canada (early 30s)
I met Natalia at a conference the day after I had gone through a pretty bad breakup (for like the 10th time in that relationship).
So when she told me she was a breakup coach, my interest was immediately piqued.
For previous breakups, I had followed the usual techniques – tried a therapist (which didn’t really do anything for me) and relied on advice from friends and family (who often are a little too involved in the relationship to give very good advice).
And so, I decided to try working with a breakup coach like Natalia.
My work with Natalia was very eye-opening. Not only did Natalia help me work through the breakup, but she also helped me have a much deeper understanding of myself and brought me to the realization that there’s this who other realm of knowledge about “matters of the heart” (attachment styles, love theory, etc.) that you don’t learn in school.
I found I was able to identify the type of people I was attracting or not attracting, navigate the dating world a lot better, and find a really good relationship. So overall, it just brought me a lot more confidence and self-awareness.
Unfortunately, I think many people are closed off to getting help from someone like Natalia... which is a shame because this is something that pretty much everyone goes through. Most people just deal with it their own way over time, but often they bring those scars to the next relationship and continue accumulating them until they become this Frankenstein of emotions and experiences. And yet, it’s so important to understand where that all comes from and what part it plays in your life and who you are, but it’s just not taught in schools.
But if I knew someone was struggling the same way I was, I’d tell them they should talk to Natalia. She did a lot for me and can help you get back on your feet much better than trying to figure it out on yourself (as well as work through those scars that could harm later relationships).
Tabitha, USA (late 30s)
I found Natalia after going through the hardest breakup I’d ever been through (and that’s saying something given I had already been divorced). At the time, I was undergoing one of the deepest pains I’d ever experienced.
I was very confused about where to start healing. I know that people always say to just “give it time.” And sure, I agree with that. But I clearly needed to deal with some other things as well. And I didn’t want to just keep wandering aimlessly while being devastated until things sorted themselves out.
And so, I landed on Natalia’s website while searching for some post-breakup resources.
I found many of the post-breakup websites and coaches out there very gimmicky, and that was obviously not what I was looking for. But I read Natalia’s story about her broken engagement and found the story of how she healed very compelling.
Of course, I was still a little hesitant at first. After all, there’s not a professional certificate for something like this, right? And what’s she going to say? Is she just going to direct me to resources I’ve already seen? Is she going to continually try to sell things like every other Youtube video and podcast giving breakup advice out there?
But I also saw that she had been featured on places like NPR, Wall Street Journal, and Good Morning America. And so, I decided to give a consultation a shot.
And overall, Natalia has been amazing to work with.
One of the biggest ways she helped me was by identifying my attachment style, which has been critical in helping me learn to navigate dating. She’s also very, very accessible and there whenever you need her.
I still remember one night when my ex texted me. It was a hard breakup, and this was the first time I’d heard from him in weeks. So I sent her an email letting her know what he said...and she texted me right away asking if I was okay. It might sound silly, but the fact that she checked in on me first was really impactful.
One reason I think Natalia is so good at what she does is that she’s been through a traumatic breakup so can give advice based on experienced. She’s also been very very helpful in helping me learn how to date appropriately and navigating all the weird parts of dating (like hearing from some guys every day after a date and but others not for 5 days, pointing out where someone might be intimidated by me or not responding well, etc.). And since she’s helped me develop a more secure attachment style, I no longer stress over all the things like that which would have bothered me before.
Not to mention, she clearly has a method for helping you work through things - it’s not just talking sessions. She helped me write a letter to my ex. She also shared lots of resources with me that allowed me to feel like I was being taken care of and supported between sessions. And her regular responses to texts and emails were very helpful.
She also had other exercises that we worked through on an organized Trello board. So now that the breakup is done, we’ve started to work on dating profiles and getting me clear on what I want going forward. And how not to date the wrong men!
To put it simply, I love Natalia. I want to be her. I promise you she’s amazing.
I have so much faith in her. She’s intelligent, she does the work. She’s committed to the process and you as a client. And she’s been through it and came out on the other side.
Anonymous, Canada (mid-20s)
When I first found Natalia, I had just come from an abusive relationship where we were living together and were engaged. Then we got in a huge fight, I moved out, he broke up with me, and my life felt like it was in shambles.
I was so in love with him and he was continuing to send me so many mixed messages (from “let’s be friends” to toxic bullying ones). It was my first breakup and I had truly thought I would marry this guy.
So I came to Natalia in pure shock: how could he hurt me like that? How could he leave me like that? I felt so abandoned and confused.
Unfortunately, the situation remained tumultuous for a while and we got back together (although Natalia warned me to be careful) before breaking up for good, but Natalia was there every step of the way.
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I found Natalia while searching for breakup/relationship therapists and other support. I saw quite a few other coaches out there, but Natalia was the only one I saw who specialized in breakups and relationships. I watched a few of her videos and felt that she was experienced in many things surrounding breakups, so I decided to schedule a consultation.
At this point, I truly never thought anything would be able to help me out of this situation.
However, 15 minutes into the consultation, I was amazed at the relief I already felt. I felt like I had finally found someone who really understood me and could help me. And unlike other coaches I had spoken with, it didn’t feel like Natalia had a set structure that she gave to everybody. Instead, it felt very specialized and personalized based on your situation.
Probably the best way to put it is that Natalia felt like a modern approach to dealing with breakups. I’ve done therapy before and while I think it can be great, I wanted something more targeted to this specific issue. So that’s really why I chose her over a therapist or something in that field.
And honestly, I’ve been surprised by how much she could help and how much I’ve changed by working with her.
She’s helped me in so many ways. For one, she’s helped me learn more about what I actually want and how to set up boundaries that I may have been afraid to speak up about before. She’s also given me tools for healthier relationships later on by helping me realize many of my patterns and communication mechanisms. These things have helped me far beyond just my romantic relationships – they’ve also completely changed my relationship with family members like my mom and my siblings.
But perhaps the biggest gift she’s given me is self-awareness and a truer self-confidence. By helping me become more emotionally mature and develop genuine boundaries about how I allow myself to treat myself and how I allow others to treat me, I’ve been able to develop these things in a way that I never had before.
Honestly, if I hadn’t met Natalia I think I’d be in a much, much worse place in my life right now. I respect her so much and it’s amazing to know that when I have a problem in a relationship or in life that I have someone to lean one who actually cares and can give loving, wise advice.
One major way that she was able to inspire a lot of change in me was by holding me accountable so I didn’t go back to bad habits and negative behaviors. Of course, I still struggle with these sometimes, but knowing that I have her is comforting and gives me hope.
Plus, she was always there for me, even in the late hours of the night responding to my texts. She’s such an amazing guide and did so much more than she needed to.
Ultimately, she’s given me the hope that I can improve myself and my life to create a better bond with myself so that I can one day have a healthier relationship.
Although I had so many bad experiences with coaches and therapists previously, I’m so thankful that I reached out to Natalia. She is literally my savior and she goes above and beyond.
So if you’re struggling through a serious breakup or any other toxic relationship issues, you need to talk to this woman. She’s changed my life and I’ve literally never been able to say that about anyone.
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