Breakup Coach & Dating Strategist
Hello and welcome to Lovistics. After the end of my engagement in 2010, I became obsessed with healing my own broken heart and learning to date in a healthier way to find real love. Once I discovered how to help myself it became my mission to help others make sense of love in their own lives.
My specialties include breakup coaching and dating strategy. Breakup coaching covers the entire spectrum of breakups. So whether you need help getting over a difficult breakup, initiating a breakup and creating an exit plan, or want support to NOT breakup, I can help. Also, depending on the circumstances, I may be able to help you get your ex back. Dating strategy involves creating a dating plan that will optimize your dating life to attract high-quality matches.
What Do You Need Help With?
No matter what side of a breakup you're on, going through a break-up, separation or divorce is often a very challenging experience. Often we need a different kind of support than our friends and family can provide. I get it. I've been there, and not only do I have personal experience growing through the process but I have supported many men and women to navigate through their own unique situations.
GET YOUR EX BACK
If you want to get your ex back, it's crucial that you follow certain steps. The time after a breakup is incredibly delicate and needs to be treated with a lot of care. If there is any real chance at getting your ex back, I will help you craft the perfect plan of action.
RECOVERING FROM A BREAKUP
Going through a breakup can be devastating, even if you were the one who ended the relationship. If you need support and guidance getting through your romantic grief, and/or working through the split, I may be able to help or point you in the direction of someone else who can.
INITIATING A BREAKUP
Ending a relationship with someone you care about is difficult for many reasons. Whether you feel you've grown apart, met someone else, feel the need to be single, etc., I can help you figure out how to end your relationship with respect and compassion.
Despite all of the love and dating resources out there, none of it helps if you don’t have a clear strategic plan that works with your unique circumstances to get the love you want.
In our sessions, we will get clear on your "dating purpose" and create a strategic plan so that your dating life is fulfilling and effective at connecting with the right people for you.
DATING AFTER A BREAKUP/DIVORCE
Dating after the ending of long-term relationships has it’s unique challenges. Since we are wired for love so it’s natural to want to get back out there and find new love. However, there are ways of dating that can make this time of transition more smooth.
DATING OVER 35 / MATURE DATING
My clients have found that dating over 35 (and beyond) is a lot different than dating in your 20s. They have more responsibilities and may feel they have less opportunities. That said, there are great benefits to “mature dating.” Not only do you know yourself better, but you’re more established.
BETTER ONLINE DATING
If you think online-dating doesn’t work, you’re wrong. It’s the second most common way people are currently finding relationships. Done right, online dating is a powerful tool that you can use to market yourself in a very crowded marketplace. That’s right, I said market yourself! Once you have a great profile, you will naturally attract great dates.